Cancer Compatibility

Individuals having Cancer as their sunsign are very conservative and home loving people. They are emotional individuals, possessed of great depth and endowed with a dreamy, imaginative quality which makes any love affair more of a romantic interlude than a physical attraction. Cancer individuals can be swept off their feet by love, but are quite capable of marrying wisely and putting earlier, less suitable sweethearts completely out their minds when the time comes to choice of a partner. Basically, Cancer natives possess a great deal of sex appeal. They are blessed with definite charm and often attract others without realizing it. Cancer persons are usually totally unaware of the effect they might be having on the opposite sex and thus, are frequently considered to be heart-breakers. Although emotional, these can sometimes be quite unsympathetic souls when it comes to the problems of others...not so much from coldness, but more due to the inherent desire of Cancer subjects to protect themselves from unnecesary danger. So Cancer are grateful for the tough outer shell associated with the crab which guards the soft center, tending to scuttle away from any romantic showdown.

Cancer and Aries both of them finds difficult to be compatible for each other. So when it comes to a pairing of the Competitive Warrior and the Nurturing Mother ... these two have their problems. Actually Aries is ambitious, dynamic, energetic, and new ideas and things on the other hand Cancer is far less focused on self-interests and self-assertion and much more interested in dealing with the welfare of family members and tending to home-life issues.

Ruled by the Moon Cancer natives are , nature moody, sentimental and secretive by nature. They cannot easly forget, serious quarrels or disagreements that may have occurred early in a relationship. Aries are quiet open in their nature but the secretive character of Cancer clashes with the Aries. Although Aries can also be a moody individual, such moodiness is not as prevalent as that of Cancer. When two moody people live together, the end result can be chaos. However, since one can counteract the other, it could just as easily result in a good balance. For example, Aries might be in a wonderful mood but the Cancer partner is not. Aries may be successful in cheering Cancer and thus create a balance. The risk, of course, is that the reverse may happen. What may be of little concern to an Aries subject may be extremely traumatic to one governed by Cancer. Although Cancer will hold on with the tenacity of a crab, there is a tendency to back away from situations which may have been hurtful in the past.

This combination finds fascination in each other at the beginning, but sexual attraction often fades in the face of many temperamental differences. Aries leaps without looking while Cancer is cautious. Cancer loves hearth and home but Aries hates to be tied down. Resentments can build and then arguments ensue over trifles. Aries possesses a sharp tongue that frequently wounds the more vulnerable Cancer. The more aggressive the Aries individual becomes, then the more defensive Cancer becomes. Often, there is far too little compatibility to work with and, when Cancer starts to nag, then Aries starts to look for a way out.

Taurus and Cancer is one of the best combinations. Taurus simply cannot get too much affection and tender loving care, which Cancer is more than willing to provide. On the other hand, Taurus will protect Cancer from the cold world by supplying solid and secure assets. Both of them are home-loving, emotional and sensual partners. They are concerned with safety. The understanding, as well as the admiration, is strictly mutual. On the other side, the dark moods of Cancer, coupled with the stubborn nature of Taurus, could create some "muddy" moments and both partners need to search for constructive ways to let off steam rather than brood and sulk over grievances. Cancer must learn how to adopt a direct approach to problems, since Taurus fails to comprehend anything else. They should talk, so that they have better understanding of each other. Taurus becomes infuriated when teased, while the Cancer who has been hurt will retreat into a moody silence.

Both of them should be flexible enough in order to last this relationship. Taurus should try new things and should come out form his or her super-safe surroundings. Meanwhile, Cancer will have to step out of his or her beloved routines and also try something new. If this can be accomplished, then the Taurus and Cancer combination will light an inner fire that truly feeds the soul.

Their relationship can bring a nice oasis of peace, harmony, and understanding in a vast desert of stress, callousness, and discord which is what the outside world often seems like to each of them for different reasons. Cancer's emotional awareness and heightened sense of compassion can line him up for a rough and regular sandpapering in his contact with the everyday world. Taurus may appear to have a tougher hide but that's mostly because he doesn't take conflict as personally as Cancer and because he's more subdued in his responses. The upset may still be there, but it doesn't show as openly.

The relationship between Cancer and Gemini sign is not so successful. While Gemini is constantly on the alert for change, Cancer is satisifed with becoming a truly domesticated mate. Cancer's are more moody than Gemini. Compatability between female Gemini and male Cancer is much better , particularly if there are several children to occupy the time of the Gemini female. Since Cancer is driven by emotion and feelings and, in general, prefers the constant, Gemini's unstoppable movement will prove to be very unsettling to this combination. However, this can prove to be an excellent pairing if the Gemini native is ready to settle down, since the passionate side of Cancer's nature will fulfill Gemini's physical needs, and the cheerfulness of Gemini's nature will brighten Cancer's disposition. Nevertheless, by and large, this pairing has little in common to make for a long-term relationship. Gemini's tendency to "play at love" wounds the overly-sensitive Cancer and Gemini's flirtations will make a Cancer partner feel very insecure. Any affair between these two is likely to be a volatile one, since Cancer needs security and domesticity while Gemini loathes being "tied-down." While Gemini may initially be attracted to Cancer's emotional sensitivity, at the end of the day, the Gemini individual will probably find it to be too stifling.

Cancer with Cancer

In this combination, both partners will be sensitive, sympathetic, emotional and moody. Feelings will run deep and everything will be taken personally. Cancer individuals likes to spend more time with family and prefer to remain at home as long as possible. Thus, both will be clannish and creative, taking an avid interest in gardening, cooking and other similar activities. As they have so much similarities with each other, they can understand one another in a much better way. The comfort level is much high between them, but sometime their moodiness can creat problems between them. No Cancer ever feels totally secure and since only another Cancer could ever sufficiently understand this and sympathize, such a combination will easily be able to run a house or earn money. In addition, there is not likely to be any objection to the switching of traditional roles or in taking turns to accomplish what is necessary. They both cannot keep secrets from one another. Since both partners by nature possess deep feelings for the past, home and family, if the backgrounds happen to be very different, then this could present more of a problem for this particular pairing than for any other combination of the Zodiac, the reason being that identification with origins are so very strong in the Cancer character. Basically, however, this will be a loving yet intensely emotional domestic relationship. They are deeply devoted and loyal to each other. Both will find great comfort and satisfaction in their underlying committment to one another, a faithful and caring relationship where each partner will be helpful and sympathetic of the other's needs. They will both be very oriented toward making a home and creating a sense of family. Perhaps the gravest danger here will be the ability or inability to overcome the inherent brooding, manipulative and self-pitying habits inherent in the Cancer make-up. If both can control their moods, this combination will be a very nurturing one. It is, however, important that it is not a personal slight if one requires some time alone and apart from the other. The prognosis for a long-lasting relationship is excellent...but may prove to be a difficult one to initiate since the inherent shyness of Cancer could well prevent either individual from ever making the first move.

Cancer desperately needs someone to support him and Leo is the one who provide him such support. In short, when a Leo native loves, then a Leo native cherishes. The Cancer individual's desire for sympathy, tenderness and emotional support can also be provided by the loving and warm-hearted Leo partner. However, Cancer's moodiness can present a problem in this pairing. Leo is positive and outgoing, generally an "up" personality...unless there has been a major affront to the inherent Leo pride. Thus, for this relationship to work, Leo must be given recognition, respect and appreciation. Since Cancer is not prone to be demonstrative, this could become a bone of contention between the two. That having been said, Cancer does have good intuition and will doubtless sense when things are not quite as they should be in the relationship. This will work well for Leo, since the Leo pride makes no allowances for weakness and tends to say nothing when matters are not going well. Although this is a combination of vastly different temperaments, there is a good possibility for true caring within this mix. Both partners take life very personally...perhaps more personally than either might realize. This could be an unusually warm and loving bond. Leo is more dominant and will almost certainly take the lead in any relationship...which will be just fine with Cancer. When this is indeed a love match, then both partners will understand and know how to satisfy the basic emotional needs within one another. Each individual will require dedication and tender loving care, but while Cancer seeks stability and emotional harmony, Leo craves heartfelt compliments and sincere admiration. Both are fiercely loyal Signs, even to the point of possessiveness...Cancer for the sake of safety and Leo for the sake of self-confidence. However, each partner will be committed to an enduring and rewarding relationship and since the desires of both are similar, each could fill a very important void in the life of the other. Both are lovers of comfort and security, thus made a good match. In addition, both will enjoy having a lovely home and close-knit family. Leo is certain to bring flair and passion to this combination, while Cancer will undoubtedly display a sensitive and intense instinct to nurture. However, it is a "given" that the Leo partner will always be the bigger and bolder individual due to his or her vivid personality. Because both Signs here are so strong-minded, this pair must work constantly and attentively toward understanding and acceptance. Both of these individuals are inclined to take charge and many disputes may arise because of this. The relationship will last, long as each is willing to reassure the other in practical and romantic ways.

Cancer and Libra have some things in common, but their differences are much more then the similarities they have. For this pairing to work, a lot of work is needed. Both are seekers of peace and harmony with regard to life itself and relationships, and neither enjoy conflict or confrontation, avoiding such situations if at all possible. In addition, both are generally friendly, easy-going individuals. However, Cancer is sensitive, moody and emotional with a love of the past. This individual can also be clannish and something of a nitpicker, relying on feelings and intuition in order to makes decisions. On the other hand, Libra is objective, reasonable, fair and usually detached, weighing and countering decisions before they are made. Libra also loves style, grace and is very aware of the importance of a good image. With an inherent sense of aesthetics, Libra adores having a home which makes a statement, for this is a sign which is normally very concerned with what others might think. In addition, Libra is also fond of the new and trendy, preferring to be in a relationship as opposed to "going it alone." The success of this partnership depands on how much space is provided by Cancer to Libra and how much Libra allows Cancer to indulge in his or her preferably relaxed lifestyle. However, Libra tends to be judgmental and may criticize to the point where Cancer feels deeply hurt by Libra's words and actions. In short, the relationship will not last long, if the Libra partner is not willing to spend a considerable amount of time catering to the needs of Cancer. Both are thoughtful individuals who are considerate, sensitive to and aware of the needs of others. However, Libra is more objective, rational and fair when compared to Cancer, who is subjective, emotional and biased by personal sympathies and loyalties. Though seemingly unsympathetic, Libra can be surprisingly cool and intellectual when problems arise between this combination, whereas Cancer will respond in a very personal and emotional manner. Libra tends to require more communcation and conversation than does Cancer. Libra also considers it important to relate to any partner as an equal and/or peer, while Cancer desires to either mother or be mothered by his or her mate. Thus, Cancer is more comfortable with becoming emotionally or financially dependent, or to have the chosen partner dependent in such a manner. Libra, on the other hand, wants a more egalitarian relationship. These differences can cause misunderstandings, but if handled delicately may not necessarily turn into a source of major conflict.

Cancer and Scorpio combination proves to be much more compatible. Both being water signs, this combination shares strong, deep feelings and when in love, such love is liable to be "for keeps." There is a major attraction to be found here, coupled with strong possessivenesss on both sides. Each is an emotional character, but the way it is emoted is vastly different. Cancer is openly compassionate and sympathetic, unlike Scorpio who is not one for displaying sentiment, prone to act on the input he or she receives as opposed to hand-wringing, cying or sulking. When a Scorpio individual is hurt, others may never be aware of it, except for the chill which will suddenly permeate the atmosphere. With Cancer, however, the hurt is always obvious...whether in silence or out loud, it is glaringly obvious. Cancer is a more forgiving character than is Scorpio...in fact, a Scorpio individual seldom forgets a wrong done to him or her and can hold a grudge for years, perhaps even a lifetime. Nonetheless, there is a strong undercurrent of understanding in this Cancer/Scorpio combination, not to mention a true magnetic attraction. This combination could result into a wonderful marriage or, at the very least, a great friendship, unless Scorpio does not feel as though he or she is being trodden on. Scorpio will doubtless find the protective nature of Cancer to be truly comforting and there is believed to be something of an actual psychic bond between these two signs...a very harmonious blending of spirits. Both Cancer and Scorpio share a pure empathy, coupled with a very long memory for both the best and the worst. However, Cancer is probably the only sign that Scorpio is truly willing to try and forgive. Both of them can keep each others' secrets safe and feel secure in each others' company. On the other hand, Scorpio finds difficult in understanding Cancer's and Cancer refuses to tolerate any type of violence. Since Scorpio is prone to attack in a direct manner, where as Cancer individual will likely wait and think, only attack after considering all the possibilities. Scorpio needs laughter in his or her life, but should never be teased...to the Scorpio character, this is offensive. There should never be any secrets between these two or it could very easily erode the security of the Cancer and Scorpio bond. When wounded, Scorpio quickly becomes resentful and vindictive. At times, the sensitive Cancer may feel that his or her Scorpio partner is being driven more by instinct and lust than true love and this could become something of an issue. Overall, however, this partnership makes for a deep and lasting attachment which is held together with an intense sense of unity.

Cancer and Sagittarius combination does not proves to be good or long lasting match. Cancer is rather up close and personal in character, while Sagittarius is more gregarious and independent. Cancer is emotional and sensitive, taking words quite personally, while Sagittarius is not exactly known for tact when it comes to expressing thoughts or facts even, on occasion, being prone to exaggeration. With a Sagittarius individual, what is on his or her mind is usually freely expressed without much thought beforehand. The preferred lifestyles of this combination are very different affairs. Cancer loves the home and all things familiar. Versatile and adventurous, Sagittarius enjoy travel and exploring, and their minds are continually searching for new experiences. They are always ready to take risks. Home to Sagittarius natives is wherever they happen to find themselves, or a place to return to after they have been away for a while on some interesting adventure. Thus, in basic terms, there is not much in this pairing to make for a lasting relationship and Cancer may come to be overly-envious of Sagittarius' self-confidence. However, Sagittarius is such an interesting character and the ability of Cancer to "bend until it hurts" cannot be underestimated, particularly when coupled with attraction to the optimism and carefree attitude displayed by Sagittarius individuals. At the very least, Sagittarius will be initially drawn to Cancer's caring and protective nature...and there is always the shared characteristic of a wonderful sense of humor. However, Sagittarius is prone to be very blunt and may inadvertently...or even intentionally...hurt the sensitive Cancer partner, the result being that Cancer will be devastated while Sagittarius goes merrily on to something else. If this combination does prove successful, then Cancer will be the perfect host or hostess for the parties which Sagittarius loves to throw. However, Cancer does have a tendency to smother Sagittarius, who will resent this and view it as stifling to his or her desire for freedom. This pairing is bound to clash eventually, since the natures of the two involved parties are vastly different. Although, in theory, differences can complement each other and sometimes do in this instance, both partners would need to be immensely creative and imaginative in order to find ways to meet the needs of all concerned.

Both of them proves to be a good match. Cancer and capricorn are two opposite signs and are subject to attract each other with a yearning for whatever the other might have. There can be a good balance here between Cancer's sensitivity and intuitivenes, and the down-to-earth approach of the practical Capricorn. Both tend to focus on security and are not prone to be risk-takers...or even very adventurous. Thus, this pairing comes with a mutual comfort level and Cancer may find it reassuring to allow someone else to take care of things...as the Capricorn partner is almost certain to do. In this relationship, Capricorn will be the businessperson and could gain much from Cancer's support and caring attitude. However, the Cancer partner will need to understand that there will be little nurturing given by Capricorn in return. Those governed by Capricorn are perfectly able to go it alone, if necessary. Cancer is just the opposite. This pairing could very well begin as a good business combination and then eventually work its way into a personal relationship. However, the key to any success will lie in the art of communication. Both Cancer and Capricorn tend to be leaders and both share a love of collecting antiques or memorabilia. Additionally, both are conservative and will save money. When Cancer is hurt, then it will be necessary for he or she to inform the Capricorn partner of such and not be surprised when such partner honestly fails to understand, or perhaps not even notice the hurt that has been inflicted. The differences between Cancer and Capricorn individuals can be overcome if each truly understands and appreciates the other. Both seek security, consistency and fidelity in relationships, so there is a reasonably fair chance that, over time, this pairing could develop into a greater appreciation for each other's opposite qualities.

Cancer and Aquarius are less compatible for each other. Cancer is closed and reserved kind of person whereas Aquarius is open and friendly person. Cancer does not gets easily open and comfortable with the stranger where as Aquarius is positive and outgoing, being totally unconcerned with the "who" or "what" or "why." By nature, Aquarius natives are gregarious and light-heated...basically open personalities who are far from cautious. Since this is an water/air combination, it fails to bode for a good mix. Cancer will likely find the impatient and idealistic Aquarius partner to be more than he or she is able to handle, while the Aquarius individual may find it hard to sense any excitement in the relationship, given Cancer's sensitivity and vulnerability. Essentially, therefore, these two will have very little in common, excepting perhaps that the friendly and normally interesting Aquarius subject tends to hold much attraction for the cautious Cancer, who will be intrigued with the display of openess and spontaneity. The differences in character here are almost overwhelming. Cancer is possessive, Aquarius is independent. Cancer is emotional, Aquarius is rational, even aloof. Cancer is a home loving body where as Aquarius is very friendly and loves to be a group of people. Thus, beyond the intial attraction, this combination stands little chance of survival, unless the Aquarius partner is willing to settle down into the "safe zone" offered by Cancer, in which event, this union could turn into a very loving and somewhat adventurous relationship. At the end of the day, however, Aquarius may well be too much of a dreamer for Cancer to handle and Cancer may be too emotional and sensitive for Aquarius to deal with. These two will find little to talk about since Aquarius is looking for intellectual stimulation while Cancer simply wants to chit-chat. Aquarius, with his or her knack for making new friends, adapts easily to career changes and the other demands which come with such a situation, finding the transition to new surroundings much less stressful or difficult than does Cancer, who is inclined to live in one place for a long time. Cancer is also more concerned with having financial and material security, inclined to worry if circumstances are not stable and secure. In short, Cancer needs a level of emotional bonding and nurturing that Aquarius may well be incapable of providing.

Cancer and Pisces are very much compatible to each other. This combination is a shared relationship of feeling, sympathy, understanding and emotional rapport. Both are sensitive, intuitive and receptive souls, as well as being easily influenced by the surrounding environment and each other. Both are artistic and creative individuals who share an appreciation for art, music and most other forms of cultural pursuits. They both are always willing to compromise and sympathize one another. However, the great danger here is that there is so much similarity that it is difficult to establish the differences. Since Cancer and Pisces flow into each other so easily, there are no apparent boundaries. Thus, there is a tendency for one to absorb the traits of the other, thereby becoming united and a mirror image of each other. This is a somewhat complacent combination with a tendency for all energy to be absorbed inwardly, leaving little for anything outside of the relationship. Nevertheless, there are certain minor differences. Cancer is clannish, whereas Pisces is more universal in nature. Cancer is satisfied with close family ties or the immediate circle, whereas Pisces loves to mix with all types of people. Cancer is cautious of strangers, whereas to the Pisces mind, there are no strangers. Pisces never remembers anything because of their absent minded nature where as on the other hand Cancer will never forget a birthday, anniversary or other special occasion.

So the Cancer and Pisces combination is a safe and compatible relationship with no adventure and even less in the way of surprises. Aside from any romantic venture, this pairing has great potential for a lifelong friendship since Pisces is always willing to listen and Cancer will always be caring.