Virgo Compatibility

Virgo natives have the reputation of being cool, undemonstrative and even somewhat frigid in their attitude toward love and romance. However, this is rarely the case. Rather, it is the most calm waters which tend have the most depth. There is a need here to express the deepest emotions in an almost self-sacrificing manner, which is why Virgo subjects will give a great deal of themselves to a cause in which they are interested, or in a way of life which they feel is the only way. If that way of life should be marriage, then these individuals will be fully dedicated to making the partnership a success. Persons who fall beneath the jurisdiction of this Zodiac Sign can be very withdrawn, particularly with strangers. Indeed, they only appear warm and loving to those who know them best. Virgo natives require a tranquil partner and a solid foundation for happiness. These are earthbound souls in moral outlook, which does not mean they have no spiritual side but merely that they are not prone to float or drift. Deeply-rooted in fundamental beliefs, the Virgo subject is unmoved by the more ariel or light-hearted spirits. Those ruled by Virgo will never be flattered by charm or overcome by acts of show or overwhelmed by admiration for the flashy. These are persons who know what they want...in both love and life...and will pursue their partner of choice with much determination. This is truly a shining nature, generous in unmaterial things while being careful in every other respect. Virgo individuals can only be happy with a mate they believe to be ideal in every way and they are willing to wait until such a person comes along.

The Virgo male is orderly and methodical in his thinking, but not always in his dress. Typically a generous and loyal soul, he may not be overly sympathetic in romantic affairs although he constantly harbors a desire to assist those in need. This man usually proves to be a true partner or husband..once he makes up his mind..and will be very affectionate and devoted to his family. At times, Virgo males may be extremely demanding, requiring that any mates prove themselves over and over again. They will also expect sacrifices to be made if necessary. Anyone seeking a "sugar daddy" or a man who will take infinite care of his partner had best seek elsewhere. This individual can be depended upon, but he is nobody's fool. The key word here is integrity and above all else, the Virgo male needs to feel that he is worthy. This is a man with a quick mind and one who is practical and honest. However, he is basically shy in terms of sharing his feelings. Any partner must help the Virgo male to build his confidence and it would be foolish to expect him to be outgoing. This is a far from happy-go-lucky soul. In order to fully understand him, it is necessary to learn how to "read between the lines." Males governed by Virgo need mates who have faith in them and can appreciate depth of feeling. Patience will also be a factor when it comes to achieving goals. To be truly happy with a Virgo man, any prospective partner must appeal to his intellect rather than his emotions. He is inherently critical and discriminating, and does not admire anyone who is weak or whimpering. Males governed by Virgo prefer strong individuals who can hold their own in any given situation. By nature, men of this Zodiac Sign are very practical and will not waste a great deal of time on those who cannot command their respect. If this male ever appears harsh and arbitrary, then it is probably because he expects much more from a partner than that person has been able to provide. In marriage, he will be self-sufficient, dutiful and faithful. Though dependable souls and good providers, Virgo males are not necessarily exciting or adventurous when it comes to romance. Thus, many partners of these men often seek clandestine affairs. It will be important for any mate to realize that no amount of love, attention and/or devotion will ever transform this man into a Don Juan. When it comes to the ability to change, he will inevitably be somewhat stuck in his ways. His staid attitude is frequently well-hidden in the early stages of a love affair. Indeed, he may initially come across as flirtatious, seductive and a veritable tease. This can lead to problems and much confusion further down the road when the true Virgo nature emerges in full force since once a comittment has been made, he will undoubtedly seem to have lost his love for the chase, preferring to "cozy up" with a good book instead of his partner. Perhaps the most apt description of the Virgo female is "discriminating." It is probably no accident that the glyph for this Zodiac Sign often depicts a woman bearing a sheaf of wheat, for separating the wheat from the chaff is something that the Virgo woman does best. For example, she will want to know the details of any partner's daily activities and the most recent project undertaken. More than anything else, females ruled by Virgo demand action rather than just words. Relatively soon in any relationship, she will seek a commitment, which includes a ring on her finger and cash in the bank for that summer residence in the country. Of all the Zodiac Signs, the Virgo woman certainly cannot be trifled with and it would be a grave mistake to underestimate her or fail to include her in every plan made. This female is perfectly capable of setting goals and overcoming any odds to reach them. Unlike some of the other Signs, this female truly knows what she is all about and only if she can be accepted as a full partner will she become a wonderful asset...one who is always there when needed. Virgo females also need to know exactly where they stand. She is not necessarily adverse to a brief romantic fling, as long as she is made aware of that fact from the very beginning. The most enlightened of Virgo women are those who have developed both their intellectual and spiritual sides. Such females are extremely powerful, magnetic and charming individuals...ones who can possibly sway an entire nation, if not the whole world. A major problem common to women governed by Virgo is their tendency toward hypochondria. They are so centered on being perfect that they are inclined to imagine ailments and disease whenever they feel the slightest bit out of sorts. In truth, however, these females rarely require medicine at all and usually live long and useful lives, often appearing many years younger than their actual age. In the romantic arena, this woman is often more responsive to the mind rather than the body, with a tendency toward being passive rather than active. She seldom smolders with passion, desire or longings and will certainly never worship the ground any prospective partner walks on. Essentially, this is a female who plays it very cool.

Virgo with Aries

Here, the bold and audacious nature of Aries will undoubtedly intrigue the shy and reserved Virgo for a while, but basically, each partner has totally different ideas about romantic escapades and most other aspects of life. Thus, the prudent ways associated with Virgo are soon likely to clash with the colorful personality of Aries. The passion of Aries is impulsive and direct while the sexuality of Virgo is more engimatic and takes time to be revealed. In other areas, Aries is brimming with exciting new plans and ideas but insists on being the boss...Virgo is critical and fussy, liking things to be done in the typical Virgo manner. Aries considers Virgo to be somewhat cold and carping...Virgo disapproves of the Aries extravagances. Aries finds Virgo to be overly-logical, analytical, fault-finding and excessively precise...Virgo finds Aries to be far too impatient. Therefore, the partners in this relationship usually end up making war instead of love. On occasion, Virgo may be overly-eager to please Aries in the bedroom, agreeing to each and every suggestion but, over the course of time, the Aries partner may feel that some of the initiative should come from Virgo. Such a situation could easily result in a grand display of Aries restlessness. In short, there is something of a communication problem here because Aries wants to act and Virgo wants to talk. In addition, Aries adores a flamboyant social life while Virgo is happy with quiet and intellectual friends. Arguments are likely to be rather passionate and Aries is sure to bring out what is perhaps the worst of habits inherent in the Virgo character...nit-picking and nagging. The Virgo native is a thinking individual by nature, one who lives more cerebrally than physically. On the other hand, the Aries native is an action-packed go-getter who detests spending too much time languishing in the same place...after all, there are worlds to conquer. If this pair can develop mutual hobbies and habits, then there will be a common ground on which to base a relationship, but failing this type of sharing, their life together is likely to become unbearable for each of them. Thus, the relationship could deteriorate to the point where, instead of listening to one another, they become trapped in a round of putting down each other's suggestion and ideas for improving the situation. If this tendency fails to be recognized and checked very early, there can be little chance of surviving the personality clashes that will soon branch off in different directions and result in a parting of the ways. Virgo is a caring Sign whose natives are willing to sacrifice themselves for the sake of others and it will be important for the Aries partner to be patient with this tendency. In order for this relationship to succeed on a romantic level, the Virgo partner must realize that bossy Aries does not take kindly to criticisms...even if such criticisms are truly well meant. The Aries sense of discovery is severely undermined by any form of judgment and such will often throw this native into a deep depression. In turn, the Aries partner must allow Virgo space. There is undoubtedly a continual challenge here to make this pairing work but it can be achieved and if so, makes for a truly dynamic relationship. Nonetheless, it will take a lot of effort on both sides.

Virgo with Taurus

Disagreements in this partnership will be few and far between since both individuals have a strong and practical side to their natures, coupled with shared logic and a sharp financial ability. Taurus adores being showered with attention and Virgo loves fussing over someone he or she loves. Thus, this could be a very satisfying relationship for both parties. Each is fond of children in the home and offspring will play a large part in the lives of this pairing...demanding and receiving constant attention. While this may sound like the perfect match, there are some drawbacks to the situation. Being human, neither partner is truly perfect. Virgo works very hard at a career or even on a domestic chore that the Taurus partner will doubtless feel he or she could accomplish in half the time with far less effort. This can result in the Virgo partner being considered something of a "fuss budget," which does nothing to boost the self-worth which is so necessary if Virgo is to excel. This partnership is often a case of love at first sight. Indeed, the tenacity of Taurus coupled with the sharp mind of Virgo does make a good combination for success as a team. Both are basically homebodies and share similar intellectual pursuits. The Taurus partner will keep a careful eye on expenditures, which is something which will surely please the thrify Virgo. However, the strong critical streak inherent in the Virgo nature may well cause the Taurus mate much stress and tension. Taurus does not like to have his or her faults held up for display...although the more evolved Taurus individual will have probably learned that the best way to deal with this is to simply ignore it. Both partners in this match will observe certain routines and always play by the rules and they share the same moral outlook on life. Although both lack what might be best described as a spontaneous approach, neither places a particularly high value on that trait. On a romantic level, some adjustment may have to be made since Taurus is more physical in that area. Indeed, Virgo is not an overly active Sign when it comes to the art of love. Nonetheless, it is likely that the Virgo partner will find that romance with Taurus is as good as it is likely to get with anyone. Here, the Taurus mate may find that he or she can break through the inhibitations of Virgo and even bring out the baser instincts of that Sign...but it will take a great deal of patience. That aside, this coupling has almost everything else in common and is considered to be a very favorable match.

Virgo with Gemini

In this combination, Virgo can provide a scope for the intelligence of Gemini, as well as mental stimulation. With the passage of time, however, it is likely that the Gemini partner will become restless with the Virgo inability to go along with his or her rather unorthodox ideas. The Virgo individual's sensible approach to matters may also become a deep-seated cause for resentment and eventually, Gemini may well find Virgo's petty attitude toward finances to be a constant source of irritation, to say nothing of the constant criticisms. Nevertheless, the Virgo mate's desire to understand the moods of Gemini and even accept them an inherent part of the nature is sure to make the Virgo partner endearing. Here, the Gemini mate's lack of constancy in most matters may create doubts in the Virgo mind that Gemini is capable of loving anyone other than himself or herself. Sometimes, the Virgo insecurity in such instances causes a claustrophobic reaction on the part of Gemini which can lead to violence. Since both partners are ruled by Mercury, they do share a similar mental approach to life, but have little else in common. Eventually, Virgo will consider Gemini to be a scatterbrain and immature while Gemini will think of Virgo as being a stick-in-the-mud and tiresome bore. Virgo's analytical approach will be viewed by Gemini as indifference and the busy social life of the Gemini partner will be looked upon by Virgo as superficial and a gross waste of time. Virgo is critical...Gemini is tactless. Thus, passions run on a low thermostat and the romance will soon turn chilly. In the beginning, there will be a strong sexual attraction between this pair, but if the Gemini partner believes his or her ego to be threatened, then any desire for the individual who delivered the offense will be quickly withdrawn. Such withdrawal is unlikely to bother Virgo, but Gemini's eye is almost certain to roam and he or she may well go in search of love elsewhere. In short, this is not considered to be a favorable match.

Virgo with Cancer

The Virgo qualities of being ruled by intellect and logic go a long way in making him or her a formidable force to deal with. The emotions of Cancer are such that they prevent this native from being the gregarious type. Thus, in this combination, although Virgo can become frustrated with the Cancer partner, the inherent nurturing and domestic inclinations of Cancer's personality can go far in making Virgo feel loved and secure. However, Cancer ties to family are strong and relatives may pay more visits than Virgo might otherwise prefer, which can serve to be a source of irritation. In terms of finances, Cancer is shrewd and careful, but may be totally unprepared to emotionally handle the criticism which is sure to come his or her way should there be a mistake. Living with the critical Virgo mate will not be easy for the emotionally high-strung Cancer, who will take each and every criticism to heart and likely sulk for days. Although Cancer's responses are emotive while Virgo's responses will be analytical, the two personalities here mesh so well that it may not become an issue. Cancer's struggle for financial security will work perfectly with the goal-oriented Virgo. Plus, Cancer has the ability to understand Virgo's fussy ways while the steady Virgo partner can help balance the variable Cancer nature. Cancer's dependency neatly complements Virgo's need to protect and each partner will be anxious to please the other. However, one of the major dangers in this relationship may be too much caring. Both of these Signs love to nurture and fuss around those they love, which may make life quite intolerable. In addition, while Virgo and Cancer may talk endlessly about what needs to be done, neither is necessarily positive enough to actually accomplish anything. In a romantic sense, neither partner here is greatly moved by the urge for physical intimacy and it may not play a large role in their lives. Petty quarrels and criticisms may spoil what little harmony the pair can create together, but this can nonetheless be a secure, comfortable, and affectionate relationship.

Virgo with Leo

The virtues of Virgo are not normally attractive to Leo, but Leo may be initially drawn to Virgo given the inherent unfilled need for constant flattery. Thus, in this combination, if the Leo individual is experiencing a rare moment of inferiority, he or she may find Virgo quite appealing and there is no doubt that Virgo will view Leo's crestfallen expression as that of someone in trouble. Hence, the Virgo individual will be eager to offer his or her aid, only to be met with a vastly different person once Leo has regained his or her self-confidence. Here, Virgo is a somewhat miserly spender while Leo is far more generous and their differences regarding finances will encompass everything from planning a budget to squirreling money away for the future. In addition, Leo lives for the moment while Virgo exists in the mental world of tomorrow...yet another cause for tension between them. Virgo's cutting remarks can deeply wound the Leo partner if Virgo happens to be displeased with any extravagance on the part of Leo, to say nothing of the Virgo mate viewing recreational pursuits as a waste of time. That having been said, regardless of all else, Leo will always admire the Virgo partner's intellectualism. Virgo fails to understand dramatic nature of Leo and refuses to be dominated. In turn, Leo cannot get from the cool and reserved Virgo partner the type of physically romantic responsiveness he or she demands. Virgo is practical and prudent while Leo is extravagant and a spendthrift. Leo likes to live life to the fullest, but Virgo is conservative, frugal and a nit-picker...which only serves to dampen the inherent high spirits of the Leo mate. Leo requires a great deal of flattery, but the tendency of Virgo is to often puncture inflated egos. Since Leo would rather be engaged in something fun...such as hosting a party or going out with friends..and Virgo frowns upon this, such may play a large role in breaking up this relationship. In order for this relationship to work, tolerance must be the main ingredient. It is the nature of Leo to be fiery and passionate in the romantic arena, but Virgo is easily satisfied and has no need for games or fantasies. Thus, this match is on shaky ground, at best.

Virgo with Virgo

Since both individuals in this combination are governed by the same Sign, there will be a shared outlook on life. Both are led by common sense, are idealistic and possess the same attitutude toward finances. They also share another trait...that of being critical. Thus, it is imperative that each individual in this pairing has a separate careers or they will surely turn their critical eye and tongue upon each other. Sticklers for detail, these two Virgo natives will spend much time making laborious lists regarding things to be accomplished. Rarely if ever slapdash in their methods, not to mention the highly logical thinking process, this pair is likely to create and live in their own little world, barely making room for the imaginary or fun pursuits or fantasy. All will probably be smooth sailing here as long as these two perfectionists can curb their instincts for finding fault. In fact, they may well bring out the very best in each other. These are responsible, sensitive and intelligent souls who take love seriously. They also share passions of the mind and will never bore each other. Although there will probably be a continual contest over which is the leader, they basically have too much else in common for that to be of any consequence. The greatest danger lies in one of these partners making a mistake which results in the other hurling cruel and hurtful remarks. Physically romantic encounters are not likely to be paramount in holding this relationship together...both believe there is much more to life. It is more probable that a warm and affectionate bond will slowly grow in this combination and that more than anything else will be the long term reason for the parthership. If this pair can survive the critical storms and avoid a nerve-racking confrontations, this match can be made to work and result in an abundance of love on each side.

Virgo with Libra

Libra is everything that Virgo would secretly like to be...charming, romantic, dashing, devil-may-care and popular. When Libra turns on the charm, Virgo is swept away in a romantic haze without ever realizing that the Libra partner has done this dozens of times to different love interests, often utilizing the same words and the same actions. Eventually, the Virgo individual will come back to earth and notice that most of the Libra appeal is superficial and that could be the beginning of the end. Essentially, Libra is far too affectionate and frivolous for the emotionally inhibited Virgo, who takes love very seriously. Virgo refuses to express flowery admiration, which is the stuff of life to Libra natives. The stay-at-home Virgo resents Libra's social butterfly instincts and pursuits of pleasure. Libra's tastes are expensive while Virgo is careful...even miserly...when it comes to money . If this relationship is to work, then Virgo must come to accept the infidelities of the Libra partner and learn how to live with them. If not, then he or she will be a very bitter individual who is disillusioned with love. If the critical Virgo should analyze the inner Libra personality too much, then the Libra mate will become outraged and break off the affair. Virgo is ruled by intellect but Libra is ruled by feelings and emotions. Virgo sees no logic in disruptive behavior and desires a quiet and calm home life. In turn, Libra finds Virgo to be fussy, critical and totally inflexible, as well as being petty and narrow-minded, particularly in terms of faithfulness. Romantically, Virgo is more straightforward in his or her approach, whereas Libra prefers the dance of love. In addition, Libra natives are apt to be romantically inclined at any given moment, regardless of the time of day or location, and then do an abrupt about-face, requiring that they be courted for hours before the first move is made. Thus, the affair is destined to be short-lived. Indeed, any longevity in this union is sure to bring uhappiness to both parties.

Virgo with Scorpio

You enjoy delightful companionship. You both love and respect each other. You also fear criticism and censure. You always endeavour to please each other. Initially there could be lots of constraints but gradually you begin to depend on each other. This is a relationship built on mutual trust and respect.

Sensual Scorpio keeps trying to entice Virgo into ever bolder adventures. Virgo is pleased with Scorpio because they are possessive and fiercely loyal, which makes them feel loved and protected. They also admire each other's minds. Virgo is logical, intellectual, analytical. Scorpio is imaginative, visionary, perceptive. Each sometimes has trouble expressing real feelings: Scorpio is volatile but secretive; Virgo is self-restrained and reserved. There may be some conflict about who runs things, but Virgo's willingness to compromise keeps Scorpio tractable.

Virgos are subtle in their passions but surprising. The pure, proper Virgin, when the conditions are perfect, unleashes a primal sexuality that will shock most unsuspecting signs. The mutable Virgo has 2 parts...the Nun and the Whore and they are rarely seen simultaneously. Scorpio is often used synonymously with the word passion. There is a reason for that. Not many signs can remain in the depths of emotional passion for quite as long as the Scorpion. It's the same energy that allows them to obsess about a love they once had or about you if you are their focus.

Virgo with Sagittarius

You may not be naturally compatible, but somehow you begin to like and enjoy each other's company. Your individual problems seem to vanish as soon as you talk to each. In this combination, there is no room for secrets. Both are rather sensitive. Should one of you feel that the other doesn't trust you, you feel hurt, and you withdraw.

Virgo and Sagittarius are like the grasshopper and the ant. Sagittarius's free spirit has nothing in common with hardworking Virgo. Sagittarius has a reckless gambler's spirit, while Virgo carefully builds for future security. Both are intellectual signs but the way their minds work clashes with each other. Sagittarius is expansive and extravagant, while Virgo prefers a simple, ordered, and unpretentious life. Sagittarius considers Virgo's sexual attitudes rather prudish, and won't stay long in one bedroom anyway.

Virgos are subtle in their passions but surprising. The pure, proper Virgin, when the conditions are perfect, unleashes a primal sexuality that will shock most unsuspecting signs. The mutable Virgo has 2 parts...the Nun and the Whore and they are rarely seen simultaneously. The Passions of Sagittarius are a different nature. As with all fire signs this is hot passion that can quickly fizzle out. Sagittarius' are fast and furious in the sack with all the excitement of a puppy, what they lack in charm they make up for in speed. 

Virgo with Capricorn

You get along well. There is strong attraction between you. Capricorn feels secure in Virgo's company. Virgo has implicit faith and trust in Capricorn's judgement. Both are methodical, practical and ambitious. Virgo is more romantic. Capricorn down to earth. You have a good relationship.

Virgo and Capricorn are a harmonious pair. Capricorn's ambition and drive for success meshes well with Virgo's perfectionism and energy. Both are diligent, disciplined, and have a sense of purpose. They admire one another and take great pride in pleasing each other. Both need respect and approval (though neither will confess this), and each intuitively gives the other exactly that. Sexual compatibility becomes a mutual achievement; in lovemaking, though, Capricorn usually takes the lead.

Passion is a physical thing for these 2. Both have extreme carnal desires and can really let loose when feeling intimate but luckily for both of them; sex is not a trivial matter. For the Mountain Goat it must serve a purpose whether it be for procreation or closeness there must be a reason for the bonding. For Virgo, there must be sincerity and commitment for once a Virgo commits to you it's usually for life (this is also true for Capricorn). Capricorn is impressed by the Virgo since of duty and ironically Virgo is impressed by the same quality in the Capricorn.

Virgo with Aquarius

You like each other. Virgo will have to make all the adjustments. Aquarius is loving generous, considerate but sometimes hyper-sensitive. Virgo cannot criticize Aquarius without starting a fight. Aquarius is proud of his philosophy which Virgo considers impractical. Yet, you could make this relationship work.

Virgo and Aquarius are both rational, intellectual, and tend to view love in the abstract but the similarity ends there. Aquarius has venturesome ideas and thinks Virgo unresponsive or cold. Actually, each has a distant quality: Virgo is cautious about emotional giving; Aquarius's thoughts are in the far-off clouds. Aquarius is interested in other people, in causes, and in setting the world right. Virgo seeks personal achievement and financial security. Aquarius is outgoing, inventive, a visionary. Virgo is reserved, prudent, and very practical about its ambitions. This couple may not even make it as friends.

Virgos have 2 parts: the nun who appears pure and completely comfortable with her virginity and the Wild One who unleashes the wildest sexuality you can imagine. Virgo is picky and can wait a long time for the right person...the perfect person. Aquarius just could be that person whose aggressive, imaginative style could sweep Virgo right off their feet with a different acrobatic style of love making each night. Virgos love stimulation and surprise and Aquarius can easily fit that bill. Aquarians love the delicateness in Virgo and the can feel safe with the easy way Virgo accepts the unpredictable styles the Water bearer brings to the bed room.

Virgo with Pisces

This could be an ideal match. Virgo's dreams come true in this association. The finer aspects of Virgo comes out in this relationship. Only Pisces knows that Virgo can also be sensitive, gentle and romantic. Virgo learns a lot from Pisces. And Pisces rediscovers himself in this relationship.

To Virgo, love means security and mental compatibility. To Pisces, love is a sweeping, all-enveloping emotion. At first Virgo is powerfully attracted to Pisces, as opposites often are: sentimental, in-love-with-love Pisces is very intriguing to Virgo, and Pisces is fascinated by Virgo's incisive, analytical mind. However, disillusion quickly sets in. Pisces's extravagance, secretiveness, and dreaminess frustrate pragmatic, orderly Virgo. Also, Virgo isn't likely to adapt to some of Pisces's sexual preferences.

Virgos are subtle in their passions but surprising. The pure, proper Virgin, when the conditions are perfect, unleashes a primal sexuality that will shock most unsuspecting signs. The mutable Virgo has 2 parts...the Nun and the Whore and they are rarely seen simultaneously. Pisces are water signs and can merge into a deep pool of intimacy often sweeping Virgo into a magical world of simmering passions. Remember, neatness counts, Pisces, you MUST take a shower before and after, there is no room for dirt in the bedroom (unless it's in a Magazine).